CHANGE IS LIFE !!!!!!!!!!

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Change is life……
In life everything has to be changed.A child holding his father’s hand under his own steam on road,grows up and turn upto a youthful guy reached to his shoulder length walking with him side by side,always enduring  this change process all the way through his life.Babyhood has to end up to a new stage and then another and a further coming and fleeting one after other…and scenes of life just keep on gently sloping  just like if someone is sitting in train and watching different sights passing outside the window.Seasons,days,years,events,everything changes…. moments change, faces change, lives change..anything you name it has to be changed or replaced by the other.Its innate , its normal…

What should I do if I am change resistant????? I exceedingly dislike change whether its seasonal or behavioural. sometimes I do not even like the time moving on; that’s something we say momentary change.For The similar reason relocation means a real headache and frustration to me.Leaving one place and moving to a new one seems much difficult that I do not like the spaces to be changed by any means .In actuality I do not want the things to be altered.I always start to plan any coming event many days or I can say a long time ago habitually to lessen my restiveness for the change that is going to happen.Change always disquiet me whether its big or small one.so should I give a thought about all this ..?????how is it going..????is it unnatural or anomalous???i thought we pencil in some graph lines for normal behaviours or situations according to our perceptions and thinking patterns that if someone conduct onself at certain intensity graphically he is normal and if one is behaving below or above that line  we think he is atypical.Its matter of  how and what we parcieve…but this vile feeling for change sometimes crafts lot of troubles for me..usually its not a big one and I deal with it myself,,,the one thing that I have to do is just to juggle with my mind and emotions….but sometimes it cause some solemn issues for me and people allied to my life which is truly painful sensation.In those moments I just wanted to get rid of my irrational fear of change..i do not want my people to know about this aspect of my traits,,do not want them to see feeble or shabby facet of me…that’s why I am trying and trying to make it done single-handedly…Do not know what will be the outcomes but have to do….life is all about variations and modifications…its a process of change….so I am undergoing this  process somewhere inside me to get myself attuned to life…to this change fright…….
I am trying to find out the things about this apprehension.....on my way to explore the solutions,,facts that i figure out....will definitely share with you...

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